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How many times do I need to leave my comfort zone?
And why doesn't slow change and incremental growth count for leaving comfort zones?
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Why are public spaces so uncomfortable nowadays?
Between hostile architecture and a lack of care about welfare, we're quite literally stuck between rocks and hard places.
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Do you have 90 hours to be regular friends?
New adult friendships and the loneliness epidemic.
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Why haven't I been writing?
A quick update on NC + several cool things for you to check out this week.
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Let single people celebrate their life achievements too
Why is it always about weddings and babies in our society?
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Can we stop chasing productivity?
Total productivity is a myth, so we've gotta reign in those hacks.
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How much do you make?
We need to destigmatize talking about money.
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Why aren't women willing to have kids anymore?
Sure, it's expensive to have a kid — but that's not the only reason birth rates are declining.
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Why are we losing all our third spaces?
And where are we supposed to socialize as a community once we've lost them all?
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Are comic books literature? Should they be?
Why are we so obsessed with real books?
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Are his hobbies more important than hers?
How come (married) men have more free time than their wives? Even when there are kids in the picture?
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Can we lighten women's mental load?
There's a lot of invisible labour that keeps our world running.
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